Njengabazali, elinye lawona mava amnandi kukubukela abantwana bethu bekhula kwaye bajonge ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kwiintsana ezingaphantsi kweenyanga ezingama-36 ubudala, izinto zokudlala aziyomithombo nje yokonwabisa; zisebenza njengezixhobo ezibalulekileyo zokufunda nophuhliso. Ngoluhlu oluninzi lwezinto onokukhetha kuzo ezikhoyo kwimarike, ukukhetha into yokudlala efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho omncinci kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Kwesi sikhokelo, siza kuxoxa ngendlela yokukhetha amathoyizi akhuselekileyo, abandakanyekayo, kunye nophuhliso olufanelekileyo kumntwana wakho oselula oxabisekileyo.
Inyathelo lokuqala ekukhetheleni usana lwakho into yokudlala kukuqonda inqanaba lokukhula kwalo. Iintsana ezingaphantsi kweenyanga ezingama-36 zikhula ngokukhawuleza ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni, nangokweemvakalelo. Kubalulekile ukukhetha izinto zokudlala ezihlangabezana neemfuno zabo kunye nobuchule babo kwinqanaba ngalinye. Ngokomzekelo, iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zinombono olinganiselweyo kwaye zikhetha imibala ehluke kakhulu kunye neepateni ezilula. Njengoko bekhula, izakhono zabo zemoto ziyaphucuka, zibavumela ukuba babambe izinto kwaye baphonononge indawo yabo ngokusebenzayo.
Ukhuseleko kufuneka lube yeyona nto iphambili xa ukhetha izinto zokudlala zeentsana. Qinisekisa ukuba into yokudlala ayibeki bungozi bokukrwitshwa okanye inamalungu amancinane anokuginywa lula okanye aphefumlwe. Ziphephe izinto zokudlala ezenziwe ngezinto ezinetyhefu okanye ezinencam ezibukhali ezinokumenzakalisa umntwana wakho. Ngalo lonke ixesha ujonge ingcebiso yeminyaka kwipakethe kwaye ulandele izikhokelo zomenzi malunga nokusetyenziswa kunye nokongamela.
Uphuhliso lweemvakalelo lubalulekile kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi. Izinto zokudlala ezivuselela izivamvo zosana lwakho ngokubona, isandi, ukubamba, ukungcamla, nokujoja zinokunceda ngokuphawulekayo ekukhuleni kweemvakalelo zalo. Iincwadi ezithambileyo, izixhobo zomculo ezinje ngerattles okanye i-maracas, kunye namathoyizi amazinyo, zezona zikhetho zibalaseleyo zokukhuthaza ukuphononongwa kweemvakalelo ngelixa ubonelela ngentuthuzelo kunye nolonwabo.
Ukukhuthaza izakhono ezifanelekileyo kunye nezakhono zemoto ngomnye umba obalulekileyo wophuhliso lobuntwana. Izinto zokudlala ezifana nezihluzi zemilo, iibhloko zokupakisha, kunye nezinto zokudlala zokutyhala zikhuthaza ukulungelelana kwamehlo, ubugcisa kunye nokomelela. Ezi zinto zokudlala zikwanceda ekuphuhliseni izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki kunye nokwazisa ngesithuba.
Ukuphuhliswa kolwimi ngomnye ummandla obalulekileyo apho izinto zokudlala zinokudlala indima ebalulekileyo. Izinto zokudlala ezisebenzisanayo eziphendula izenzo zomntwana wakho ngezandi okanye ngamagama zinokukhuthaza ukuqonda ulwimi kunye nokwakhiwa kwesigama. Iiphazili ezilula ezinemifanekiso kunye neelebhile zinceda ekuqondeni izinto kunye nokuqonda ubudlelwane phakathi kwamagama nemifanekiso.
Ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo ngokwentlalo kukhuliswa ngezinto zokudlala ezikhuthaza intsebenziswano kunye nokudibana ngokweemvakalelo. Oonodoli abathambileyo okanye izilwanyana ezimfumamfuma zibonelela ngentuthuzelo kunye nobuqabane, ngelixa iiseti zendima efana netheko leti okanye izixhobo zoogqirha zikhuthaza umdlalo oqikelelwayo kunye nokwakha uvelwano.
Ukongeza kwezi zinto, kukwabalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuqina kunye nokucoceka kwento yokudlala. Iintsana zidla ngokubeka izinto zazo zokudlala emilonyeni yazo, ngoko ukuqinisekisa ukuba into yokudlala inokucocwa lula kubalulekile ekugcineni ucoceko. Ukukhetha izinto ezihlala ixesha elide kuqinisekisa ukuba into yokudlala inokumelana nomdlalo orhabaxa kunye nokucoca rhoqo ngaphandle kokuqhekeka okanye ukonakala.
Ukuqukumbela, ukukhetha ithoyizi efanelekileyo yosana lwakho olungaphantsi kweenyanga ezingama-36 ubudala kubandakanya ukuthathela ingqalelo izinto ezahlukeneyo ezinje ngokhuseleko, ukufaneleka kophuhliso, uvuselelo lweemvakalelo, ukukhuthaza isakhono semoto, inkxaso yophuhliso lolwimi, inkuthazo yokukhula kwentlalo-ntle, ukuqina, kunye nococeko. Ngokuzigcina ezi nkalo engqondweni ngelixa uthengela izinto zokudlala kwi-intanethi okanye ezivenkileni, unokwenza izigqibo ezisekelwe kulwazi eziya kuba negalelo ekukhuleni komntwana wakho kunye nakwimpilo-ntle yakhe. Khumbula ukuba umgangatho kwimiba yobuninzi xa kuziwa ekukhetheni amathoyizi omntwana wakho omncinci; utyalo-mali kwizinto zokudlala ezimbalwa ezikhethwe ngononophelo ezihlangabezana neemfuno zabo ezithile kunokuba uzixakekise ngeenketho ezininzi. Ngeethoyi ezifanelekileyo ecaleni kwazo, usana lwakho luya kuba nohambo oluzele lumnandi lokufumana nokufunda kule minyaka ixabisekileyo yokuqala.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jun-13-2024
